“Virtual dates: bridging the online and offline dating gap” by Frost, Norton and Ariely
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- Virtual dates: bridging the online and offline dating gap
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Online dating has emerged as a popular way to meet romantic partners; some 16 million Americans have used an online dating website [1]. Although online dating offers seemingly limitless new relationship options, it fails to meet users’ high expectations, and online daters continue to report a general preference for offline dating over online dating [2]. We suggest that this widespread disappointment is due in part to a critical mismatch between online and offline dates. On offline dates, people interact in real time and gather a wealth of social information. Online, however, people choose partners by sorting them on various attributes (e.g., height and favorite movies) – as if searching for a car or computer – then exchange brief email messages, a process lacking the real-time interaction critical to the acquaintanceship process. We sought to modify the exchange of information in online dating to more closely mirror a real-world first date, such as talking while meandering through a museum. We used an evolving enriched chat platform, ChatCircles [3], to create Virtual Dates: Pairs of individuals – represented by avatars of their choosing – co-navigate a shared space, exchanging real-time messages. Virtual Dates are intended to bridge the gap between offline and online dating by increasing social presence and enriching exchanges, better simulating first dates in the real world.
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1. Madden, M. & Lenhart, A. 2006. Online dating. Washington, DC: Pew Internet and American Life Project.
2. Frost, J. H., Norton, M. I., & Ariely, D. 2006. Improving online dating with Virtual Dates. Manuscript submitted for publication.
3. Viegas, F. & Donath, J. Chat Circles. In Proceedings of ACM CHI 1999. ACM Press, New York, 9–16.
